@lilleejean
Wooow❤️
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@yaseen_272
#drinkglow
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@addysonicole
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@bestgoldvaluecapital
Idiots drink and pay for that stay thirsty drink water 💦
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@vvickbrag
Bring to Brazil
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@911_jattwaad
Love
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@guajardocoronelgerardo
@kyliejenner Most of the time, we make our assumptions very quickly and
an unconscious way, because we have established agreements to communicate
thus. We have agreed that asking questions is dangerous, and that people
The one who loves us should know what we want or how we feel. When we believe
something, we assume that we are right to the point of destroying our
relationships to defend our position.
We assume that everyone sees life the same way we do.
We assume that others think, feel, judge and mistreat the same way we do.
we make. This is the biggest assumption we can make and is why
We are afraid to be ourselves in front of others, because we believe that we
They will judge us, they will make us their victims, they will mistreat us and they will blame us like
we do it ourselves. So even before others
have the opportunity to reject us, we have already rejected ourselves
ourselves. This is how the human mind works.
We also make assumptions about ourselves, and this creates many
internal conflicts. For example, you assume that you are capable of doing something, and then
You discover that you are not. You overestimate or underestimate yourself because you don't
you have taken the time necessary to ask yourself questions and answer them. Maybe
need more information about a particular situation. Or maybe you need to stop
Lie to yourself about what you really want.
Often, when you start a relationship with someone you like, you have to
justify why you like it. You only see what you want to see and deny that some
aspects of that person you dislike. You lie to yourself for the sole purpose of
feel that you are right. Then you make assumptions, and one of them is: <MY love
will change this person>. But it is not true. Your love will not change anyone. If the
People change because they want to change, not because you can change them.
Then something happens between the two of you and you feel hurt. Suddenly, you see what
you didn't want to see before, only now it's amplified by your emotional poison
Now you have to justify your emotional pain and blame your decisions on
others.
It is not necessary to
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